***important question.......any positive, optimistic answers pLeAsE!!?

So...my husband and I have been trying to conceive for about 2 months....I got off the pill Microgestin on Feb 18th...had a period 2 days later...well I just got another period on March 22nd...very heavy, and lasted for a week. I have NO idea when I ovulate....and I dont wanna buy those kits and check my temperature.....I think we should just stop trying and see what happens.....I dont know I am just frustrated....anyway, I am experiencing this nauseated feeling for the past 2 days, like I have no appetite at all....I know it may take a while for the pill to get out of my system, and I know it takes about a year on average for a couple to conceive....but I just wanna be pregnant so bad, and I hope I am not part of the norm.....any comments, uplifting responses appreciated <3 baby dust to you all ladies <3 xoxoxo we are all in this together!